The first two nights we checked out the scene at Bastille (known to have crazy people come out after midnight and proved true).
Day 1: We ended up at a bar that had a good looking bartender (both had an agreement on) and a happy hour at the time of arrival (to prolong our night...and life in general) We came straight from shopping with a few bags, not an ideal situation but were too tired to climb up the French spiral stairs to my apartment on the 4th floor. The night went on pleasantly and it ended even more pleasant when the next drinks were offered (without asking of course) by a French bloke with a degree of PhD.("bloke" because he lived in Ireland for 4 years)Day 2: It was rather similar as we were trying to live up to the standards of the first night - cute looking bartenders with a nice atmosphere. Only thing that went wrong was the first frog who came to chat us up was rather out of our league (speaking of a self confidence). After trying to be polite and struggle with the language barrier (my broken French, my friend's next-to-zero French and his almost-none English) for awhile, my friend finally got to the point of madness and squeezed out the little French she knew "Vous allez, s'il vous plait" (while I fled to the toilet). He, as she told, was understanding and left the bar by asking me to give him a call. Poor guy...*picked up the paper that he had written on his number and put it in a finished glass of cocktails*
And when we thought that we were safe, the two guys at the bar (learned later that one was the cousin of the bar manager) sent a waitress to offer us drinks and later followed. We politely chatted with them and politely laughed at their jokes. As we learned that they would be going to Thailand next month and how much they liked Thai food, we politely gave them a few tips. The night went on...slowly and politely ended...
Day 3 - From the lesson of the night before, I decided to change the area and went to a more sophisticated scene. We started by walking around St Michel...It was Friday night so there were quite a few things going on, one of them was a street magic show. Only a few people were watching at the time so we were at the front row. I was annoyed by the show as the magician was rather slow. "Stop lingering and just show us something(!)," I thought to myself with a non-smiling face and crossed arms. I suppose the gesture was too obvious, the magician then dragged me and made me his assistant. The task was to smile, to pull a rope, to hold a scissor, and to cut a rope in two. It was kind of awkward for me in front of the strangers (apparently, there were all this whole crowd gathering around...must have been my short skirt err...) Anyway, it was a good fun and a good laugh.
After finishing the new part-time job at the show, we went on to Odeon and finally found ourselves a cafe. Actually, because of our indecisiveness, we were (politely) attacked by a waiter at the cafe we were standing at the front, so we felt obliged to say yes to his invitation. It was raining lightly but after a drink, my friend wanted to go to another place so we checked...But as indecisive as we were, plus the rain, we were lingering, again, in front of the cafe, a few minutes later, another waiter brought us an umbrella.
Me: "But we're going somewhere else.."
Waiter: "It's okay."
Me: "We don't need to give it back to you?"
Waiter: "It's fine or you can return it later."
Me: "OK, we will give you back later. Thank you!!"
He is also an Asian so maybe he would like to spread the kindness to other Asian fellows...Because according to his action, it was purely a good intention. He just walked to us, handed me the umbrella and left...nothing flirty going on. It was a surprise that I couldn't stop praising him for the whole 15 minutes.
We left Odeon and went to a local/non tourist bar I went a few times before up in Abbesses. When we walked in, I felt like all eyes were on us screaming "Aliens... Asians... Tourists...Asian girls... Short skirt..." It was really strange. I came here before but with a group of French, was checked out but not as obvious. We ended up having a seat at the bar and got a business contact from a drunk and flirty but ambitious business young man. Let's see if what he said was true. Maybe not, considering that he was still holding his glass while we were walking out of the bar together. My friend: "So what's his name?"
Me: "err...I don't remember...but his friend's is Stephane."
Oops!
Day 4 - to be continued.





































